As we overthrow our 2015 calendar 2016, our thoughts usually move to take stock of our lives, thinking about the past and planning for the future .
It's time well-meaning resolutions and turning over new leaves with the hope to feel healthier and happier.
Similarly, there are certain events in life where we stop and evaluate our lives. Birthdays (especially the milestones like 30, 40, 50 or 65) are generally
us more aware of our age, health and where we are on the path of our lives. Divorce or the death of loved ones can also lead us to reconsider our lives and
objectives.
A diagnosis of mesothelioma is definitely one of those life events. Because mesothelioma is
threatening disease, it can challenge our long-term plans regarding our roles, relationships, careers, retirement and financial security.
Some people with mesothelioma may be asking ,? ? Will I be alive at the end of 2016 ??? or ?? Will I be good enough to get to our annual family
meeting this summer ???
Positive thoughts can be difficult to maintain when the pain worse ?? s patients, and their energy is declining. It can be even more devastating when their
oncologist told their disease is not responding to treatment.
But there are ways you and your family can overcome the challenge of planning for the future.
planning for the new year
New Year is a time to plan fun activities, holidays, work projects and career goals.
Here are some tips to help those with mesothelioma and their families to plan for the new year:
- balance and flexibility are key elements
- Wait -you could be in and out of treatment this year .. If there's something important you want to do this year, talk to your oncologist about the feasibility and timing of taking a treatment break to take this great travel or focus on achieving this step you ?? have worked for years.
- Expect the unexpected and plan for contingencies. This means that you should not spend much of your savings on a non-refundable travel or make plans that can ?? t be changed in case of change in your health.
- Accepting the idea that the patient and caregiver may not have the energy or desire to pursue ambitious work, travel or leisure hours this year.
- Explain to the family and friends that you may need to review your activities because of your or your loved ones ?? s disease.
- or investigate what causes stress in your life and vow to try to let go of people or responsibilities you emotionally or physically draining. This will allow you to focus on the relationships and activities that are really important to you.
Be realistic about your expectations
The new year is a time of renewal and reflection for everyone.
It is no different for those affected by mesothelioma. However, a terminal illness can definitely change things, we hope and dreams for the new year,
and they will affect the plans we make.
With realistic expectations and flexibility, people with mesothelioma and their carers can continue to make plans and set goals this year.
